Why Mediation Matters in South Carolina Divorces
Mediation is a structured conversation with a neutral mediator who helps both spouses work toward agreement. In many South Carolina divorce cases, mediation is required before a trial. For families in Lexington, that means you’ll likely try to resolve custody, support, and property issues in mediation first.
When Mediation Is Typically Required
Courts often require mediation in contested divorce cases, especially when there are disagreements about custody, child support, alimony, or dividing assets. Uncontested divorces usually don’t need mediation because the spouses already agree.
What Actually Happens in Mediation
- Private sessions: The mediator may meet with each spouse (and attorney) separately.
- Focused issues: You’ll work issue-by-issue—parenting time, support, the house, retirement, debts.
- Confidential: Discussions are generally confidential, encouraging practical solutions.
- No decision power: The mediator doesn’t decide your case. You control the outcome.
If you reach agreement, your lawyers can turn those terms into a written settlement for the judge to approve.
Benefits for Lexington Families
- Faster, less stressful than court.
- More control over the outcomes that affect your kids and finances.
- Lower cost than a multi-day trial.
- Family-focused solutions that fit your schedules and needs.
How to Prepare
- Gather financial documents (pay stubs, tax returns, mortgage statements, retirement balances).
- Outline non-negotiables vs. flexible items.
- Think through a parenting plan: school nights, weekends, holidays, summers.
- Be ready to listen and consider creative options (e.g., temporary arrangements, phased buyouts).
If Mediation Doesn’t Resolve Everything
That’s okay. Partial agreements still narrow the issues. Anything unresolved can be decided by the judge later.
Quick FAQs
Is mediation mandatory for every divorce?
No. It’s common in contested cases; uncontested matters usually skip mediation.
Do I have to be in the same room as my spouse?
Not necessarily. The mediator can separate you into different rooms.
What if we can’t agree?
You can proceed to court. Your mediation efforts won’t be used against you.
Considering divorce and unsure about mediation requirements? Call The Farley Law Firm to schedule a confidential consultation and get a clear plan for your Lexington case.
Disclaimer
This information is for general education only and is not legal advice. Schedule a consultation to discuss your situation. Past results do not guarantee a similar outcome.